Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Alex Henry Butt with the following comment:
Hello, I'm researching my family history and have found that Sarah was a cousin (Sarah Gardiner, father Abel Gardiner). I would love a clear picture, if possible, of her final resting place to put on my genealogy page. I would appreciate this as I live in Australia so am unable to visit for myself. Kind regards - Jean Angold